A few days ago, whilst I was hosting an Access Bars therapy swap, I came to this amazing realisation during receiving my treatment.
I was lying on the massage table Blissing out and receiving this amazingly nurturing energy when at one point in the treatment as my friend was running my Bars*, I got to a wonderful Aha! Moment.
I had the sense of this delicious nurturing energy surrounding me like a huge halo.
It was as if I were being energetically cradled in a space of:
That indescribable space where you know everything is going to be OK.
It’s a moment of truth, trust and oneness like when a fragile newborn baby nestles cosily into you with a contented sigh relaxing their delicate little body warm against you, their gentle “newborn” fragrance and soft rhythmic breath.
Such honesty. Such vulnerability. Such a sense of gratitude to be gifted so much trust.
It was BLISS to be in that space.
And as I lay there basking in it, soaking up the sunshine of that supportive sensation, I realised that this is what we offer our clients.
This nurturing space.
This supportive space.
This space of “Everything is going to be Okay”.
This is such a gift, especially when it comes to areas of your life where you don’t feel like “Everything is going to be OK”.
When A Certain Area of Life Feels Devoid of Nurturing Energy
There’s usually at least one area in most people’s lives that feels the opposite of “OK”.
These can be areas like finances, health, career, relationships.
How safe and supported do you feel when you think about your finances, your health, your career or certain relationships?
Does thinking about that area of your life inspire a sense of peace, joy, relaxation?
Or do you find yourself in a more yucky space of fear, anxiety, of lack and panic…
Perhaps even that horrible gut wrenching space of “not enough”, a space where the monkey mind is constantly hissing “there’s not enough money, there’s not enough time…” that place of prodding away at a hidden underlying revolting secret… that’s hissing at you “You’re not enough!”
That’s what it used to be like for me around money.
I’d go to this horrendous place of “not enough” every time I thought about money.
I never seemed to have enough.
No matter how hard I worked, it seemed that as soon as it came in, it was already spoken for, already spent.
I would spend hours agonising, losing sleep night after night about how the hell I was going to pay this or find the money for that.
A punishing, torturous energy.
No fun at all.
Luckily, I found and applied the tools of Access Consciousness, especially The Bars (one of the Bars focuses on releasing and dissolving all our limitations specifically around money.
Now with these tools I’m calm around my finances. My money flows are much greater and I have more ease with money.
So now, whether I’m teaching The Bars, giving a Bars session or Coaching someone on building their business, One thing that I realised that I do for my clients is hold the space for them.
Hold that space of nurturing energy, of “everything’s going to be OK” energy, that space where they can breath and relax into the delicious possibilities of change.
Choosing Change Can Be Challenging
When we are choosing to change something, that thing that we’ve chosen to change, often holds a whole lot of negative charge on it.
We’ve often decided that it’s wrong and terrible and we are wrong and terrible for having allowed it in our lives.
The thought of changing it can make us apprehensive, nervous and resistant to even going there, fearful of what we may find. Fearful that it’s going to be far worse than we thought it would be.
So fearful that we’d rather hide, bury our head in the pillows like we did as a kid when a scary movie was on….
What if you could face it if you had someone there for you?
Someone holding a safe space for you, so that you could take a peek from behind the pillows and realise that it is OK to come out and take a fuller look.
Once we are willing to look at something, to see it as it is:
Not worse than it is
Not better than it is
Simply look at it as it is.
That is the key to change.
That is the key to changing the way that something is showing up in our lives into something greater, something more, something that’s fun for us.
Out of the torture, into the fun.
Holding The Space For You
My job is holding the space for you, the space of safe, nurturing energy where you can look at whatever it is you’re desiring to change without going to that wrongness and terribleness.
Holding the space where you know that everything is going to be OK. The space of trust, vulnerability and gratitude. The space where like the newborn baby can snuggle contentedly, you can sigh at the relief of being held in this magical space.
One of the questions I ask when I’m with a client either in person, online or in a group is:
What energy, space and consciousness can I be to allow [ insert client’s desired outcome] for you with total ease?
I invite you into the space of you.
To accept my invitation, contact Niki HERE
What would it be like to have someone holding the space for you?
The space of nurturing energy, the space where you know everything’s OK, the space of ease and peace, fun and joy…
And whatever else you are asking for.
What could that create for you?
P.S In case you’re wondering “Which position of the Bars were being run when this nurturing space ‘Ahahhhh moment’ opened up?” …. it was Restructuring of Bodies 😉