Holding the Nurturing Energy space for you

A few days ago, whilst I was hosting an Access Bars therapy swap, I came to this amazing realisation during receiving my treatment.

I was lying on the massage table Blissing out and receiving this amazingly nurturing energy when at one point in the treatment as my friend was running my Bars*, I got to a wonderful Aha! Moment.

nurturing energy

I had the sense of this delicious nurturing energy surrounding me like a huge halo.

It was as if I were being energetically cradled in a space of:

Total safety
Total nurturing
Totally supported
Magically Mindful
Peaceful

That indescribable space where you know everything is going to be OK.

It’s a moment of truth, trust and oneness like when a fragile newborn baby nestles cosily into you with a contented sigh relaxing their delicate little body warm against you, their gentle “newborn” fragrance and soft rhythmic breath.

Such honesty. Such vulnerability. Such a sense of gratitude to be gifted so much trust.

nurturing energy bliss

It was BLISS to be in that space.

And as I lay there basking in it, soaking up the sunshine of that supportive sensation, I realised that this is what we offer our clients.

This nurturing space.
This supportive space.
This space of “Everything is going to be Okay”.

How safe and supported do you feel when you think about your finances?

Does it inspire a sense of peace, joy, relaxation?

Or do you find yourself in a more yucky space of fear, anxiety, of lack and panic…

Perhaps even that horrible gut wrenching space of “not enough”, a space where the monkey mind is constantly hissing “there’s not enough money, there’s not enough time…” that place of prodding away at a hidden underlying revolting secret… that’s hissing at you “You’re not enough!”

That’s what it used to be like for me around money.

I’d go to this horrendous place of “not enough” every time I thought about money.

un nurturing energy

I never seemed to have enough.

No matter how hard I worked, it seemed that as soon as it came in, it was already spoken for, already spent.

I would spend hours agonising, losing sleep night after night about how the hell I was going to pay this or find the money for that.

A punishing, torturous energy.

No fun at all.

And what I realised that I do for my clients is hold the space for them.

Hold that space of nurturing energy, of “everything’s going to be OK” energy, that space where they can breath and relax into the delicious possibilities of change.

 

When we are choosing to change something, that thing often holds a whole lot of negative charge on it. We’ve often decided that it’s wrong and terrible and we are wrong and terrible for having it like that in our lives.

The thought of changing it can make us apprehensive, nervous and resistant to even going there, fearful of what we may find. Fearful that it’s going to be far worse than we thought it would be.

So fearful that we’d rather hide, bury our head in the pillows like we did as a kid when a scary movie was on….

not nurturing energy

What if you could face it if you had someone there for you?

Someone holding a safe space for you, so that you could take a peek from behind the pillows and realise that it is OK to come out and take a fuller look.

Once we are willing to look at something, to see it as it is:

Not worse than it is

Not better than it is

Simply look at it as it is.

That is the key to change.

That is the key to changing the way that something is showing up in our lives into something greater, something more, something that’s fun for us.

Out of the torture, into the fun.

My job is holding the space for you, the space of safe, nurturing energy where you can look at whatever it is you’re desiring to change without going to that wrongness and terribleness.

Holding the space where you know that everything is going to be OK. The space of trust, vulnerability and gratitude. The space where like the newborn baby can snuggle contentedly, you can sigh at the relief of being held in this magical space.

One of the questions I ask when I’m with a client either in person, online or in a group is:

What energy, space and consciousness can I be to allow [ insert client’s desired outcome]  for you with total ease?

I have a space for you.

I invite you into the space of you.

fun nurturing energy

To accept my invitation, contact Niki HERE

What would it be like to have someone holding the space for you?

The space of nurturing energy, the space where you know everything’s OK, the space of ease and peace, fun and joy…

And whatever else you are asking for.

What could that create for you?

*What are Access Bars?
Which position of the Bars were being run when this happened? (Restructuring of Bodies)

Pulling In Money

I often get asked about skills for Pulling In Money that I use to create more in my life.

More money, more fun, more enjoyable travel and exploring, more of the things that I love to do and have in my life.

I was chatting with my friend and colleague Mary Hassett around this subject and she said:

“Why don’t we create a call about this?”

So that’s exactly what we did!

Pulling in money

Here’s a short video taster of Mary and I sharing one of the tools that we’ll dive deeper into on our call:

Ask

Simple?  Yes.

Important?  F*ck Yeah!

What fun can you have with this that you haven’t considered?

 

Bring your questions, bring your curiosity and we’ll share fun, practical tools to help you change all that funky stuff you’re fed up of doing around money.

 

Pulling In Money

Niki Duffy CFMW Shares Tools to Actualise More Money Into Your Life With Ease, assisted by the Fab Mary Hassett BF

Practical tools and energetic processes you can use to unlock the areas of your life where you limit the amount of money you can have and receive.

Is it time for something different ?

What could using these tools and processes do for you and your bank account?

Join us from wherever you are in the world to create a change with your money situation

When: Tuesday 1st May 2018
What time: 7pm UK Time
Where: Online
How Join: Link sent to your email after payment
How Much? TWO options:

1) Just £67

– or –

2) £27 when you invite 27 people

What you get:
Ask your questions live or send them in before hand

The Call Live
A Recording of the Call

This online Zoom Call will be on Tuesday 1st May at 7pm UK time.

To register and pay click here https://goo.gl/EiMdh1

To register and pay and invite 27 people click here https://goo.gl/39NY8A

Gratitude is Weird

What gratitude can I be today to create more for me and my money situation right away?

Gratitude is a weird one.

I get that it’s important to be grateful and I am grateful,

SO so awesomely grateful at times…

Gratitude

And then there’s the echoes of wrongness from my childhood.

That elderly distant relative that smells strange and brings you shit you don’t want:

“You SHOULD be grateful!”

The echoes of school teachers, neighbours and religious distorting true gratitude from something beautiful, expansive and connected “Oneness” to a twisted, mealy mouthed misery of:

“Ungrateful Brat!”

When an adult gives you a birthday or Christmas present of something that you really don’t want…

Or overwhelming disappointment on unwrapping a present that you thought was going to be that thing that you’ve been asking for forever and they’d promised they’d get it for you..

Those times as a child (or even an adult) when you knew you should be grateful, and really you had it a lot better than most other people in certain situations, but you still wanted MORE.

I got so sick of being told to be grateful for what I’ve got.

Told to be thankful for the food I don’t want to eat because there’s starving children in another part of the world.

The implication spoken or unspoken was that it’s wrong to ask for more.

That you should just “Put up and Shut up”

A Different Kind Of Gratitude

Mary Hassett and I talk a little about gratitude in relation to money in this short video:

What if it is OK to ask for more?

What if it is vital that you DON’T settle for what you’ve got. That you don’t put up and shut up. That you keep searching, striving, asking, DEMANDING more of yourself and the world around you.

What if you never gave up on you?

What if gratitude didn’t have to be a judgement or a jail sentence?

What if gratitude could be the beginning, the space of creation?

How about being in a space of complete gratitude for everything that is in your life AND asking for more?

What could that create?

We have tools for this and much more on our upcoming call…

When: Tuesday 1st May 2018
What time: 7pm UK Time
Where: Online

That sounds fab! How do I Join?

TWO options: 1) Just £67 https://goo.gl/EiMdh1
– or –
SPECIAL OFFER!!! Invite 27 people and receive the class for just £27 https://goo.gl/39NY8A

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